The Dominant Mind, FAQs

What happens during a session? I am somewhat nervous about it, and wonder if I'll be able to go
through with it; but I'd really like to experience playtime with you... Can you allay my fears?
Not to worry, this is the very reason why I insist upon a consultation meeting after you throughly complete and
submit the Client Dossier form. This meeting not only addresses your questions and concerns but also provides
us with an opportunity to discuss your interests and fantasies at length in a relaxed, non-intimidating, no-
pressure atmosphere. This meeting is integral to establishing our compatibility; this way, our session time is
completely devoted to play.

When the time arrives for our session,we will have a brief conversation about your desires for the session, what
will take place, and your limits. You shall have a few moments to become comfortable and ready yourself for
the session. Thereafter, the session will begin and my Dominant Mind will take over and incorporate our
discussion into an original scene. You will have a “safe word” to stop the scene if you must. For further
information, please visit the Sessions page.

If you remain uncertain about sessioning in-person, there are still ways to serve me with pleasure. I suggest
consideration of Distance Training or Financial Domination. Each of these modes of domination offer a
uniquely fulfilling experience.

Where is your facility located? Is it private, safe and clean?
My Central Florida playspace is located just north of Orlando and just south of Daytona Beach. It is very
private and non-commercial, located in a quiet, discreet area. It is very clean and comfortable. The space is
reserved for your time, and you will not encounter any other clients before, during, or after your session. All
equipment and toys are thoroughly cleaned and sterilized after each use. In the interest of promoting even
more cleanliness, I encourage clients to purchase and bring their own special toys which they may either leave
with me under lock and key, or take with them. For a lovely selection of items, visit the Naughty Shoppe page
and take note of my favourite vendors.

What is your tribute? Why must new clients place a deposit?
My basic tribute is $250 per hour, per person and is payable in advance of sessioning.
Services such as invasive medical play incur an additional tribute. All new clients must
establish a relationship with me and prove worthy their intention of serving me. All of my
clients have had to put forth a $50 non-refundable deposit to secure their appointments and
cover any cancellation fees that may be incurred in the future. Serious clients understand,
appreciate this, and act accordingly. Once you are an established client, there will not be a
need for further deposits so long as you maintain good standing with me.

Do you session with other mistresses? May another domina watch or humiliate me, as well?
Generally, I work alone, one to one with my client(s). However, this is not to say that such a request is not
possible. From time to time, I may host a visiting domina, and she may be interested in a double session.
However, this privilege is reserved for those minions who have served me well and of whom I may be proud to
display to my guest. I must ensure that you are properly trained and worthy of such an honor. We would
prefer to relish our time humiliating you rather than being disappointed in your manner and performance.
One should also make note that my guest should be compensated for her time: such sessions begin at a $500
tribute per hour.

Is photography, videotaping, or sound recording allowed?
Yes, it is. A few of my pets request a token of remembrance of their session in the form of photographs, sound
recordings or a video. This is especially true for my foot and bondage fetishists and those who partake in
*Hyper Therapy. Please be aware that an additional tribute for such service is required. Such recordings may
be arranged in one of two ways. With the first, and my preferred option, photographs and/or taping the
session is done with my equipment. I retain ownership of all of the material, moral rights, and right of
publicity. After our session, I shall provide you with a copy for your non-exclusive personal use. This option
calls for an additional per hour tribute of $50 for photographs and sound recordings, and $100 for videotaping.
The second option allows you to bring your own camera or recorder; however, since you're keeping the original
material, you must offer a substantially greater per-hour tribute of $250 for photographs and $500 for
videotaping. Further details and payment arrangements may be found on the Tribute page.

Why is your tribute that much? I've seen other dominatrices for a bit less. Why
should I see you?
Most commercial dungeons and inexperienced dominas session at discounted rates and
conduct their business based on quantity versus quality. To them, you are merely a number
and a sad individual of whom they may easily take advantage. I must reiterate that you get
what you pay for. It is a luxury and privilege to session with a truly professional
Dominatrix who takes pride in the time and care she offers her minions. My clients notice
and feel the difference from the beginning. Those who are truly suited to my style
appreciate it and offer their testimony. However, if you feel you must be frugal with your
tribute and time, I kindly invite you to seek another domina who may be better suited to
your personality. We are all different, and there is always something for everyone.

Are you looking for a personal slave? I love to serve. May I be your property?
No, dear. I am not seeking such devotion at this time, and such service is only reserved for those who have
loyally served me for years as clients. You must first prove your intentions worthy of my time. I am a
professional as well as lifestyle domina and must be respected as such. However, I do invite you to complete
and submit a Client Dossier and visit the Role Playing page as it offers scenes of which you may find to be of
interest. Doing so will be the first step in serving me as you so desire.

Is Professional Domination prostitution?
No, absolutely not! I am not, nor have I ever been an escort. I do not have any intention of becoming one.
Let me make this perfectly clear: We will NOT have sex. Don't even ask or insinuate. If you do so, you will
be dismissed and blacklisted. If you are looking for sexual contact, you should go elsewhere. There are
prostitutes who delve into domination; however, they are amateurs who serve pathetic, lonely people who are
too fearful to develop relationships and explore and embrace their sexuality in a healthy and safe manner. Do
not EVER consider or compare me to one of them. Like those who see Me, I have a genuine orientation
towards power exchange, kink, and fetish. Like all sexual orientations, I believe Dominants are born and
not made. If you are a submissive or slave at heart, there is nothing like submitting to a Dominant who
understands your desires and needs.

What is your experience as a Dominatrix?
I have been a professional Dominatrix for nearly a decade and a lifestyle domina since my desires began
maturing and evolving during my young adulthood. I am well educated in the psychological sciences with a
special skill that allows me to tap into my submissive's psyche and soul.

Unlike some dominas, who wish you out the door as soon as you've paid, I take time and care for my pets. The
world stops when they are with me. I offer them relief from the mundane and free them from the shackles of
their daily, pressured lives. I Am the Only One who they are able to trust with their innermost thoughts and
desires. They are free to express who they really are without fear. I Am their Psychological Saviour. Do not
mistake this understanding and skill as having a meek or gentle demeanor. While my manner is astute and
polite, I rule my Kingdom with a firm and just hand. I am strong yet emphatic. I've experienced all manner of
pleasure and pain, and I do not perform anything which I have not personally experienced myself. Safe, sane
and consensual play is what I practice, in addition I am also certified in CPR and first aid training.

I learned my craft in dungeons around the world and apprenticed with some of the finest dommes in Europe.
My Specialties are in the areas of Financial Domination, Role Play, Corporal Punishment, Gender Bending,
Emotional Release, Bondage, Fetish and Distance Training.

Are there some types of play or people which you prefer over others? What or whom do you dislike?
I enjoy all of what I do, otherwise I would not do it. The realm of BDSM is vast and there are many delights
in which to partake. However, I do have a few favourites that are especially pleasing: Role Play -- Age Play,
Animal Training, Crucifixion, Edge Play, Interrogation, Maid Training, Repentance, Servitude by
Submissives and Financial Slaves, Teasing and Denial; Corporal Punishment & Torture -- CBT, Fire & Ice,
Flogging, Humiliation, Nipple Torture, Scratching; Bondage-- Caging, Chastity, Spreader Bars; Fetish --
Foot Worship, Leather, Medical Play, Panties, Showers, Spanking; Gender Bending -- Forced Femme & Sissy
Training; Emotional Release --*Hyper Therapy, Sensory Deprivation.

As far as play is concerned, there is not much I dislike. Certain things, such as suspension and
mummification bore me. While I've no aversion to blood sports (in fact I quite enjoy them), I do not perform
them with "newer" subs. The privilege of my piercing your flesh, shedding your blood and branding you
with my symbol only comes after you've served me well and I deem you worthy. The one thing I do find
rather vulgar, however, is a Roman Shower; it is quite unladylike to purge one's meal. Other showers
however, I quite enjoy.

As far as my submissive is concerned, I dislike disrespectful, loud, or "bossy" subs that attempt to "top from
the bottom." Understand that while I am aware you are seeking a service, I am a true domina and know
what is best for you, when you are ready for it, and how to administer it. Neurotic and whimpering subs also
try my patience.

My preferred play partner follows My Commandments and, in essence, is one who is polite, deferential and
has a desire and need for fulfillment of a different kind; one who has been hidden and longs to be discovered
by the right catalyst. This lamb, who may be concerned about being "judged" or "exposed" by another,
feels safe and comfortable in my presence, thus becoming open to new experiences and emotions. They allow
me to lead them where their darker desires beckon. Despite displaying an outer facade of strength or
indifference, these lambs wish to express their vulnerability. They have a desire to please and adore the one
who offers them such significant emotional and erotic refuge.

What if we've pre-arranged a scene but I've changed my mind before the session and wish to
change it to something else? Is that possible and how much notice would you need?
This largely depends upon the kind of scene for which we've arranged. The more specific or elaborate the
scene, the longer it takes to ready for it. The connotation of a scene's complexity is something we would
have discussed at our consultation meeting. In general, role playing scenes are the most in-depth and require
the most effort to set up.

You may switch from the complex to the simple, simple to simple, but you may NOT switch from the
complex to the complex. For example, if you've arranged for a flogging session but you'd rather switch to a
foot worship session, then it is not a problem and we can continue ahead at the time of session. If you feel it
necessary to "downgrade" from an elaborate scene to a simple session of, let's say, servitude, it would take a
few moments of reconsideration; therefore, a phone call 30 - 60 minutes in advance would suffice. However, if
you've arranged for a more complex role playing session, such as "Evil Workout," which requires set up of its
own special area and props, and wish to change to another complex scene such as, "Blessing and Sacrifice,"
which also takes some time and effort to set up as it is necessary to prepare the alter and vestries, then it is
not possible. You are better off rescheduling the session. Why is that? First, I will be rather cross at you for
being an indecisive git and not contacting me either the night before or even earlier that day. Second, your
playtime will be significantly shortened as rearrangement of the playspace and props must be made. This
will lessen my pleasure and most certainly yours.

I understand that mood plays an integral part in the experience, but there is a difference between one being
in a particular mood on a certain day and one who is generally indecisive and flighty. But we shan't let it
come to that now, would we? For further details about rescheduling and offering notice for appointments,
please read the Rescheduling and Cancellation Policy on the Sessions p age.

What do you wear during a session?
This mainly depends upon what we will be enjoying that day. Costume is a delight, and if a fetishist has a
special request for corsets, leather, rubber, or vinyl, I would consider accommodating it as long as the request
is made politely. I also refer to this preference in the Client Dossier questionnaire. I often wear what suits
my mood, but it almost always entails high heels, stockings, and garters in some form. I also enjoy wearing
a doctor's lab coat for medical/clinical scenes and a teacher/librarian outfit for discipline and therapeutic
scenes. If your fetish involves the indulgence of desires for a particular costume or fabric, you are permitted
to make a polite request and present it to me as a gift.

Mistress, why aren't you returning my email or phone calls?
I usually have a turn around time of 24-48 hours, which is quite prompt considering the amount of inquires I
receive. I respond in a professional, courteous manner. If, however, I have not replied to your inquiry, it may
simply be that I did not yet receive it; technology is fallible at times. Otherwise, it may be due to the tone in
which it was composed. I will decide, based on your introduction, whether I believe you are respectful and
sincere. If I find you to be rude or scurrilous, I will not reply. If we are on the phone and you are rude or
inappropriate, I shall end the call without any further investment of time or emotion. You do not “test" my
dominance when calling to schedule an appointment. When you contact me, be polite and respectful in your
written, or spoken word. You should be prepared to convince me to write, speak to, or see you: not the other
way around.